I bought the 4 3/5mm chain and it is absolutely beautiful! I'm 5'3" and it has a nice presence without looking like I'm about to produce a rap album. Has a very nice weight to it. I tried many other chains, a lot of them wider than this but felt almost like plastic. You will not be disappointed with this necklace. I plan on wearing it shorter, maybe a 16 inch and plan naming a bracket with the remaining links.