Belonging- A Daughter's Search for Identity Through Loss and Love by Michelle Miller
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Web ID: 17820873Excellent read
As a 75 year old African-American female growing up in the south, this book reminded me of the black elite medical professionals and how they were revered in the community. Michelle’s father fit the persona to the letter. I actually could feel her experience and pain growing up. I laughed and cried while reading some parts of this book. It is truly relatable. I am truly glad she has found happiness in being a wife and mother. Just to let her know that this is not as unique an experience as she might think. Her experience growing up is not her loss, but it is her mother’s loss. She appears to have learned from her experiences and turned the bad experiences into positive ones. It is a common experience in our culture to have many “aunts” and surrogates. I learned growing up that they are there to“ catch “ you, providing wisdom and knowledge. I had a male relative that almost the exact same circumstances happened. His father denied him because of his family. He met with his father who told him in no uncertain terms that he did not want to be a father to him and did not want his family to know about him. I enjoyed the book and have recommended it to others
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