I bought this exact bolero 3 years ago, use it constantly and wanted another to leave at another residence we often use. It is soft, light, goes over almost anything, doesn't cling to clothing, never wrinkles and washes up like new. Keep in mind this is not a sweater, which I love because they don't seem to hold their shape and wrinkle easily. I am 65, 5'8" 137lbs, 36DD and bought a Medium. I often wear a small and ordered a Small, as well, but the M fits perfectly.